I Know Where You’re Coming From

World Globe

My boyfriend and I have very different personality types.

He’s an extravert, so he’s always asking me things about people that I can almost never answer, especially any question that begins with the word “where.”

I’m an introverted woo-woo woman, so these tangible details rarely concern me.

Here’s a typical exchange:

ME:  “I met the coolest lady online today.  We talked about all kinds of spiritual stuff.”

BF:  “You did?  So where is she from?”

ME:  “The internet.”

BF:  “Yeah, but where does she live?”

ME:  “Inside my computer.  Which part of this are you having trouble with?”

BF:  “Sigh.  Why do I bother?  Seriously.”

ME:  “That’s what I say when I pick your socks up off the floor every day.  You don’t seem to have an answer either, so I guess we’re even.  Oh, and feel free to ask me WHERE the hamper is.  Because that one I do know.”

And then we hug. And everything is fine.

Because you just can’t fail to get along when you’re hugging all the time, personality types regardless.

This is my secret for relationship success.  It really is!

That, and splitting the apartment down the middle into The Monkey Menagerie vs. The Sock-and-Pet-Free Zone.

Hey, whatever works.  I’m a practical gal. :)

You Are My Sunshine

Rain Hands

You know, nothing impresses me more than when a client really grabs on to the information that they receive in a reading, and uses it to truly transform his or her life.

I am endlessly astonished by the strength that so many of you demonstrate, despite the extremely difficult things that you have often been through in your lives (some of which I have no reference point even to imagine, so Spirit has to present it in symbols instead).

And yet you keep trying, one day at a time, showing compassion for yourselves and for others (often even the ones who did you harm), and I feel so incredibly blessed to have known each one of you.

Because on any given cloudy day, YOU are my silver lining.

Mill of Mysteries

Sadly, we saw no obvious specters at our final ghost hunting class on Friday night – they were probably all scared off by my even ghostlier pallor.

But I still haven’t reviewed the evidence on my digital recorder, so who knows what might turn up?

Last week, though, I thought I “saw” a little girl and a woman on separate floors of the old mill, and they were both wearing outfits of an identical style.

It was the similarity that got my attention once I thought about it a bit, since of course I had no idea what textile factory workers wore back then.

So I decided to look it up.

Our local library houses some photos from that very mill in its online collection, and I was able to find this one, from 1925.

Mill Workers

The woman closest to the front is wearing a smock that is pretty much identical in cut and design to the ones I clairvoyantly witnessed.

The only difference is that the color of the one I saw was blue, and these are white – but then the woman and the girl looked like they might have been from an earlier era than 1925, judging by their hairstyles.

Still, it’s clear that the employees of this mill commonly wore such aprons to protect their clothing while they worked.  I saw another photo on the wall showing several more women wearing them.

You learn something new every day, am I right?

In one area of the mill a woman named Rose is reputed to walk, trailing her floral perfume around with her.  As we were standing in this room, I clearly heard a male voice say “Rose, Rose, Rose” in quick succession.

Unfortunately my digital recorder didn’t catch it, but another classmate said that she heard it as well.  So I guess we weren’t the only ones looking for her!

Below are a few photos of what the mill looks like now.  Just a little bit less sunny, eh?

It’s currently being converted into apartments and businesses, though, so the ghosts may have more comfortable accommodations pretty soon.

That should keep them in good spirits.

Mill Pillars

Mill Meters

Mill Stairwell

Mill Hallway

Coming Out of My Shell

Recently, I was fortunate enough to secure a spot in “An Evening With Two Intuitives,” a recorded call hosted by psychics Lindsay Curtis of The Daily Awe, and Julie Langdon Barrett of A Clear Sign.

This event invited 20 separate people to ask a single burning question of these two excellent intuitives, and to have them answered in a recorded call format.

I threw my own hat into the ring, mostly because I was curious to see how my colleagues Lindsay and Julie work.  Over the course of the recorded call, I had a chance to see their process very clearly, and I was quite impressed.

Each question was answered in considerable detail, including very specific names and information that the clients could potentially use to address their concerns.  Even I was surprised by how detailed the responses were, in fact.

The question that I chose was about how best I can use the intuitive aura readings I’m doing now to fulfill both my own spiritual goals, as well as those of my clients.

The first person who stepped through to try and answer this question was a man called Charlie, who had a humorous personality, and who laughingly informed me that I was doing this work entirely because of him, and should thank him for his contribution to it.

This information made me giggle as well, because my grandfather on my mother’s side was called Charles, and often went by Charlie. He has shown up by name in readings before, and was one of my two closest grandparents prior to his passing.

Grandpa Charlie definitely did have a humorous personality, and it would not be unlike him to say something like this.  In fact, he is literally correct, because I would not even exist at all if it were not for his contribution, so to speak.

Lindsay also mentioned that she saw the symbol of a turtle for me, although she did not feel that it was my totem animal, specifically. She felt that this referred to the fact that I would need to have patience in the development of my client base and business, at least on the financial level.

Turtle Shell

This is what I look like without my glasses on, in case you were wondering.

This is relevant to me as well, because I am definitely at the early stages of my business, and working hard to develop it. I do wonder how long that process might take, but I love the work, so I’m more than willing to stick with it and see it through. It is definitely that important to me.

It is the sort of thing that I would happily do for free, if I did not really need to make a living at something, which naturally I do.

But the symbol of the turtle is of particular significance to me, because one of the most memorable blog posts I’ve read in the past few years was written by Angela Artemis of Powered by Intuition.

In this post (which you can find here), Angela wrote that it is okay to be a tortoise rather than a hare – meaning that even if your goals take longer than you expect to accomplish, this isn’t necessarily a bad thing, and that making steady and determined progress is more important than rushing forward willy-nilly, or stressing yourself out so much that you don’t enjoy what you’re doing.

This post had a great impact on me at the time, and has influenced the way I do things ever since.  Now I am far more likely to allow things to unfold at the natural pace that the Universe has designed, trusting in its guidance, instead of trying to exert too much of my own control over things.

Lindsay also noted that the turtle is associated with the use of color, and of course that is the central focus of my readings and my work, so this is very relevant as well.

Next I was specifically advised that I might be doing more local readings, in addition to the online work that I already do, and that I should print out some business cards to distribute around town.

This piece of information was particularly interesting on two levels. One because over the past day or two I have in fact been redoing my business cards, since I changed my name and URL recently. I was planning to reorder them today, in fact.

Secondly, although I did not think it was really up my alley, I have found myself giving little impromptu readings to people that I meet in public who show an interest in my work.

I gave a little off-the-cuff reading to one of the car salesmen we worked with when my boyfriend was looking for a new vehicle, for example, and another to my hairdresser and her daughter (the latter from a photo that was tacked up on the mirror).

I gave brief readings to a few of my classmates at my ghost hunting class, and will sometimes read for people I meet online, if I feel there’s any way in which I might be helpful to them.

These readings are more quick and spontaneous then the kind I do for paid clients, and I did not expect to be doing them at all, in fact.  And yet I find them to be every bit as accurate as the kind I spend a lot more time on, which is encouraging to me, as it means that I may  be able to help more people in the hours I have available.

I also find that I’m often able to determine a person’s Myers-Briggs personality type from their aura profile, and to give them guidance on that basis.  I was able to help my hairdresser understand her daughter’s behavior from that point of view, for example.

Now that’s a pretty specific skill, you have to admit!

I may end up being “The Long Island Aura Reader” eventually, although that may still be a way off!  I really do like to put a good bit of time and effort into reading and following up with each client, because I find that the outcome is ultimately more profound that way.

Besides, I find that I just can’t stop really caring about all you wonderful people! 

So for now, I’ll keep on being a turtle that carries business cards, and I’ll just let the road unwind before me at its own pace and see where it leads.

I do find that I tend to let my heart guide me in terms of who are read for, when, and where, and this seems to have served me just fine so far.  My primary goal is to help people who need my services, and there isn’t much that I will allow to stand in the way of that.

So thank you for the useful advice and encouragement, Lindsay and Julie, and I plan to take it to heart, as well as to the print shop! I really enjoyed your event, and I hope that everyone will run over and book an appointment with both of you, just as soon as possible.

I daresay they won’t be sorry!

I know I wasn’t.

Colors in the Dark

In chatting with one of my intuitive colleagues today, the wonderful Lindsay Curtis, I was reminded of something that happened to me last week which seemed interesting from an energetic point of view.

My boyfriend and I have been taking a ghost hunting class at the local community center on Fridays lately, mostly just for fun and to get out of the house.

Poor boyfriend is the only male in this class, which seems a bit odd to me, since most of the well-known ghost hunters on TV do seem to be men.

But that is neither here nor there.

At one point we were down in the basement of the community center (built in 1888) which is reportedly haunted by the spirit of a janitor who used to work there.

Broom Basement

Different basement, same creep factor.

I felt that I was able to see his spirit clairvoyantly – he was wearing an odd kind of striped uniform, and I believed that he was standing in a small room in the rear of the basement – the same place I had sensed him the previous week as well.

As it turned out, this is the only place where we picked up any audio activity during that week’s class. At one point, it sounded as though a male voice responded to one of the instructor’s questions with a very faint “Okay.”

Another one of my classmates independently sensed energy in that location, and came to stand next to me while we were doing an EVP session.

This session went on for quite a while, during which time we were expected to be perfectly still and quiet, so I began to get a little bored and restless.

Now, ordinarily, I make a point of NOT reading people who have not asked to be read.

This only seems polite, as aura reading is something of the equivalent of using x-ray glasses, except at an even deeper level.

In fact, I typically employ some psychic protection techniques when out in public, to avoid being drained by the proximity of so many different energies (some of these techniques I learned from one of my other intuitive peeps, the delightful Julie Langdon Barrett).

I don’t usually even like making eye contact with strangers – not out of shyness, mind you, but because the eyes really are the windows of the soul, and I don’t necessarily want to peek through other people’s windows unbidden.

But sometimes, certain people’s energies are so strong that they impress themselves upon me anyway, and this was one of those occasions.

Besides, it was dark and very quiet, and I had little else to listen to aside from the energy of the person standing directly next to me.

And as I stood there, I gradually became aware that I could intuitively “see” her colors, even in the dark. 

They were almost visually glowing around her, in fact, and they felt remarkably like my own energetic profile.

Colored Lights

This surprised me, because my own personality type is very rare, especially for a female. And I had spent virtually no time with this lady the previous week, so I had no logical reason to presume anything about her at all.

She and I seemed simpatico in other ways as well – we kept looking in the same directions as the energy around us changed, for example, and had identical ideas about where it was currently located.

I found this to be notable too, and it got my attention.

After the session ended and we could speak again, I began asking her questions about the colors I had seen and my interpretations of them (which I will not share here, as they are of course personal).

As it turned out, they fit her perfectly in every detail.

It quickly became clear that she and I do share exactly the same Myers-Briggs personality type, and are similar in a lot of other ways as well, including a recently awakened sense of intuition.

I probably creeped the poor girl out substantially, and because I had mentioned in passing that I was an aura reader, she admitted that she had been standing there in the gloom thinking “Ack, I hope she isn’t reading me right now.”

Which of course I totally was.

Naughty me.

I hadn’t looked any deeper than her aura color profile, naturally, but the fact that it delivered to me her personality type seemed like something to think about.

This is not the first time that this has happened, and in fact it is occurring with some frequency now. I was not expecting this development at all, and it’s very interesting to me from a scientific point of view to discover that the two kinds of energetic profiles are apparently linked, and can sometimes be determined one from the other.

The other fascinating point is that I do encounter people who share my own rare personality type with some frequency doing this work, and certain other uncommon types as well.

The reason for this is simply that these particular types tend to be more interested in spiritual topics or self-discovery, so they are more likely to be looking for my services.

If you are one such person (and if you’ve arrived at this blog, you might be), then I would be happy to read for you too, and I promise you don’t have to stand next to me in a haunted basement to do it!

A photo and your open-mindedness are all that are required.

Just click this link for guidelines on ordering a reading, and we can get started very soon!

Right on Target

Here’s a funny little psychic story for you.

More than once over the past couple of days, I had the oddest urge to visit my local Target store to go shopping.

Target DogEvery time this impulse sprang to mind I noticed it, because although Target is a perfectly nice store, it’s not our habit to shop there very often, and I had no earthly reason to go there this weekend.

I was finding it rather perplexing, actually.

Then yesterday, my mother called to tell me that she had discovered a wonderful Target in her new hometown (which is all the way across the country from me), and had a really successful shopping trip there this weekend.

She had obviously been thinking about it a lot, and so had I!

I’m not sure why I’m even paying for a cell phone anymore, to be honest.

Who needs it, when we have the Universal Hotline, free of charge?

Reach out and touch someone, indeed.

Personality Link Love

For those who were brave enough to do a bit of metaphorical navel-gazing following my previous post (and I hope you were, because the information you get from it can be terribly useful), I suspect that a little more detail on what your results mean might be helpful in applying them to your life.

To that end, I offer three of my favorite personality resources
(presented in size-descending order, as is only proper for the slightly OCD INTJ).

Link Cloud

http://www.personalitypage.com/html/portraits.html

This one is my top favorite, and the first one I always hand out to my victims clients.  There is a great deal of information on here about careers and relationships for the various types, in addition to the general descriptions.

http://www.keirsey.com/default.aspx

There are more detailed Myers-Briggs sorters on this site, as well as descriptions and lists of famous people who might share your type.

http://personalityjunkie.com/

Good descriptions, and more famous people.  Find out what kind of company you’ve been keeping, without even knowing it!

I would love to hear more results from everyone!  The more the merrier!

Are You My Type?

As I’ve been going along with my aura work lately, I’ve noticed that the readings are often nicely supplemented by a little discussion of Myers-Briggs personality types. 

If you don’t know about personality typing already, it’s kind of the scientific version of a chakra reading.  It breaks personality down into four simple components:  Introvert vs. Extravert, Intuitive vs. Sensor, Thinker vs. Feeler, and Judger vs. Perceiver.

What?  Not that simple?  Kind of weird actually?

Okay fine.  I’ll bet you’re a Sensor.  :)

For those who want to know a little more about themselves, however  (and possibly transform their lives and relationships in a truly profound way), I offer the following link:

http://www.personalitytype.com/career_quiz/

Typewriter Ball

No, not THAT type, but you will have a ball taking the quiz!

Here you will find a very short (around five minutes) personality test, composed of four comparative questions.

And unlike aura readings, which I will only do with express permission from each client, I encourage you to take this quiz for not only yourself, but for anyone else you know well enough to do so.

It will give you a tremendous amount of insight into how they think and approach life, which will help you to approach them in a way that may make your relationships far more successful.

The key to tolerance is understanding – and the more of both, the better.

I am an INTJ, for example – actually a highly rational, scientific type, and probably one you would expect to find reading a medical textbook rather than your aura.

But we can be very open-minded and intuitive, and over time I’ve done a whole lot of work to develop my feeling side, which is not naturally strong in my type.

This is the benefit of understanding yourself – it should never serve as an excuse for your weaknesses, but a tool to work around and minimize them.

If you do take the test, drop me a comment and let me know how it turned out!  I’d love to get to know you all a little better.

Sorry for the pop quiz on Monday morning, but I hope you’ll find it’s worth it!

Pick a Card Results #1

A few days ago I posted a photo of the back of a playing card (below), and challenged my incredibly devoted readers to hazard a guess as to what its color, suit, or value might be.

Okay, I admit I’m guessing about that “incredibly devoted” part, but I prefer to be optimistic.  Law of Attraction and all that.

Pick a Card 1 Back

I was frankly curious to see if:

  1. Anyone would humor Whackadoodle Woo-Woo Woman and play this funny little game at all, and
  2. Anyone would be able to pick up any information from a card in such a virtual fashion, without actually being able to see or touch it.

My theory is that intuitive information is really not limited by time or space; certain remote viewing experiments performed by the military tend to support this idea.

I envision a sort of great universal bank of information that anyone can tap into at any time, and find out what they need to know, if they really need to know it (or at least it does no one any harm).

But then again, I ate carbs yesterday, so I may not be playing with a full deck myself today.

In any case, I was pleased and surprised to find that a few people did most bravely and gallantly share their impressions, and that some did in fact give correct answers – most notably Penny, who correctly identified the value of the card as a 10, and had the initial impression of hearts for the suit.

Janice Winsor also accurately identified the suit.  You go, girls!  I’m very impressed.

Pick a Card 1 Front

I would like to try this experiment again in the near future, and I hope that even those who did not get hits this time will try again – and practice at home with your own cards or images, if the idea interests you at all. 

You can even do it while you’re watching TV, which I’m pretty sure is required by law in this country anyway.

It really is a wonderful brain-and-intuition stretching exercise, and can be deeply relaxing as well, once you get the hang of it.  You might be surprised at what you’re able to accomplish over time.

If you do try it, drop me a comment and let me know how you’re getting on!

Next time I’ll provide a few more tips on how to get impressions from objects like these, and how to tune your psychic “radio” to pick up such information.

So until then, let’s hit the deck!

Questions? Ask Your Pendulum!

While we’re on the subject of psychic card games, mystery people, and other tools for intuitive development (which we are ‘cuz I said we are), I might as well break down and confess that I have a rather serious addiction to pendulums.

Really.

Is there some sort of therapy for that?

Because I need it.

The Lovers

As is characteristic of addicts, however, I find it more comfortable to blame my problem on somebody else, and in this case the convenient scapegoat is Eva Browning of AskYourPendulum.com.

The HermitI ran across Eva’s gorgeous work by accident online (and by “accident,” I mean I was probably googling “Where can I buy way too many fabulous pendulums?”).  And the moment I saw them, I was utterly captured:  hook, line and sinker.

Or fob, chain and weight stone, as the case may be.

Eva’s pendulums (or pendies, as I like to call them), are not the typical boring-chain-glued-to-boring-pointy-crystal that you invariably run across in even the finest woo-woo establishments.  They are true works of art, each quite unique, featuring high-quality metals and carefully calibrated crystal energies intended to address specific needs.

Plus, they’re just wicked pretty.

Strength

And you can even WEAR them, for heaven’s sake.  Below is an example of one of her pendulum necklace designs, which someone should purchase for me immediately.

That would make you co-dependulant, I suppose, but I would love you unconditionally and stuff.

And this will be the last one, I promise.

Until the next one.

Inspiration

In addition to making stunning and highly useful “compasses” for the spiritual journey, Eva is just a super-warm and lovely person, and somewhere during the course of me forking over a substantial portion of my discretionary income, we got to be friends.

Go figure, right?

But there it is.

So by now I have quite the sizeable collection of these little dangling lovelies, which I display on a realistic-looking metal jewelry tree on the mantelpiece in my studio, and I am forever going in there and polishing them, moving them around, or just standing there staring at them wistfully.

And occasionally, if I really have time on my hands, I actually USE them.

If you’d like information on how to do that yourself,  Eva offers some very detailed instructions on her website, below:

http://askyourpendulum.com/How_to.asp

Now, don’t forget to leave a comment with your guesses on the first “Pick a Card” experiment.  Results will be posted in the next few days.